Gambler Pua | Richard La Ruina | Pua Training

Richard La Ruina aka Gambler is well known in the UK seduction industry as he establish his own Pua Training’s home study courses, bootcamps, ebooks etc.  He insist on learning to be a natural and has actually perfected the most effective natural seduction method in the world with his newest breakthrough: Stealth Attraction.

Besides Stealth Attraction, many of Gambler’s tried and tested attraction techniques are all compiled in his home study course: “Natural Game: The System For Becoming A Natural With Women”

Just to let you know that i have no qualms in standing by the courses by Richard. He is an “attraction” testing freak. Whatever that has worked for the naturals, he tries to reverse engineer everything from start till end, and try to find logic and structures to what creates attraction and gets the hottest girls.

And the interesting part about how he approach attraction is unique, and true. He does not believe in being a pickup artist or focuses on solely direct/indirect game. However, he does still use pickup techniques! So what is it that he wants?

He believes in doing what it takes to just get the hottest girl. And because of this nature, he did not truly take a stand. He uses a hybrid of materials and firmly believes that pickup techniques are only there to provide results and training chances so that you can eventually replace with natural game. And using NLP techniques too, eventually your subconscious mind will be programmed to become a natural after understanding how attraction works with pickup techniques as training wheels.

This is truly the only approach that i urge you guys to follow. Using whatever material you have to increase your game, and eventually understand the process so much so that you reached your desire outcome: a natural.

Alright, i will tell you some about some stuffs that i’ve learnt from Gambler himself. From many requests, i’ve realized that many guys faced problems with kissing women for the first time. It’s a scary moments where she seemed so closed to you and yet her lips are like miles away. You must tell yourself to go for it, and not run away from it. Making an approach is a nervous moment. Asking for a number is a nervous moment. But going for the kiss definitely kills you much more than that.

But what would you say if I told you there was a way to move in slowly, confidently and powerfully and get the kiss? You’d probably be willing to pay top dollar for that kind of dynamite information, right? You don’t have to  for now-

First things first. Most guys wait hours and hours and then lunge in for the first kiss. They get rejected because the girl is totally confused and, probably, freaked out. Other guys wait for the perfect movie moment to go for the kiss. Perfect movie moments don’t exist and the kiss never comes. To guarantee you get the kiss, you need to do it smoothly, with transitions.

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But how? Here’s how:

1. In the ten minutes as you work up to the lip-lock, you should be touching the imminent recipient in increasingly more sensual ways. Here’s how I do it.

• First of all, I touch her arm for emphasis when I’m talking.
• Then, I touch her hand – a really good way is to take it when you look at a piece of jewellery she’s wearing.
• Then I touch her hair – I ask her if it’s her natural colour, if she wears it up, if she’s ever cut it short or used to have it long… It doesn’t really matter what you say, just run your fingers through her hair. If she lets you do that, you’re IN. You’re money. You can kiss her now. Stop reading. Kiss her. Do it.
• If you’re still not sure, smell her hair.
• Then take her hand while you talk. If you have been carefully escalating your kino, she won’t mind this. Don’t stare at her hand, just take it. You’re the man here, right? – act like it.
• Squeeze her hand. If she squeezes back, this is another big kiss-tell. No girl squeezes back if she isn’t ready to kiss.
• Here’s where you break out the sexual nerve gas: stop talking, tilt your head and look at her. Stare into her eyes. You can tell whether she’s comfortable. If she is, kiss her.

You’ll occasionally have bumps on the road, but you can get over them. What if she turns her face away when you try to kiss her? Kiss her cheek instead and then move onto her neck! She will usually turn around and kiss your lips.

*Note: Most guys consider this to be a rejection and give up. DON’T! It isn’t rejection – she’s just testing you. Don’t back away. If you brush it aside in a manly fashion, she’ll respect you more and be turned on into the bargain. This is the critical part where a lot of guys show that they lack of confidence. No matter what, tell yourself it’s on!

Touching the girl in the lead-up to a kiss is really important. But it’s not all you should be doing. Establish a sexual vibe during the conversation too and you’ll have a powerful weapon. You’ll be unstoppable. Adding a sexual vibe makes sure the girl sees you as a potential lover rather than a friendly hairdresser.  And this is how you do it:

2. Establishing a sexual vibe as you escalate the physical contact

• More intense eye contact
• Slower, smoother, deeper voice
• Look at her in a sexual way, start to look at her lips as well as her eyes and see if she reciprocates. If she does she is imagining kissing you. Go for it.

3. Sometimes, even with no work on your part, she will still want you. When a girl wants to kiss you:

• She squeezes your hand
• She looks at your lips
• She touches your chest instead of arm
• She is comfortable with hard eye contact even when no one is speaking

By using the above material, you will be using it as a training wheel. As time goes by, you do not even need to remember the steps. Everything will comes naturally.

So, promise me one thing – promise me you’ll go out and try it. It’s all very  practical and usable golden nuggets. Get into the field and practice now.

If you haven’t been doing that, you might not be the type of person that can learn by “distance learning.” That’s not something to be too bothered about – plenty of guys have the same problem. But I can tell you one thing for sure: keyboard jockeys get nowhere. You’ll only make progress if you force yourself to take action.

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