What is a pick up line? To many guys,
they want to learn the 'ultimate', most 'powerful' pick up lines that
they can use straight away, in any circumstances, anywhere, which ever
girl he met etc. Any, in hope that that single pick up line will
perform like magic, and the girl will go... 'awww' and let him f**k her.
Wake up your idea! There is no such pick up lines. We want
to be first class and not second class. So, being first class is to
gives attraction from your personality. When you can that, everything
that you say will become that ultimate pickup line.
You must be kidding me... hey, that is what i felt last
time. I never thought that i can be so good to the extent that
everything i say becomes my ultimate pick up line. So... what you need
to do is to work on your confidence, your personality in which by then,
it really becomes you. Stop wasting time doubting your ability, God
gives us all a chance to live, and we must trust ourself. One way to
stop doubting yourself is to start! Action... trust me. 'Action equals
results' is by far the MOST important three words you must obey in
order to be successful with women.
To
work on your confidence: click here
To
work on your personality: click here
However, i will talk about some useful and powerful,
versatile that is most closest to what you guys are looking for. Before
looking at those powerful pick up lines in which i advise, people to
work on their personality and self-confidence before attempting to
remember these lines, we need to know the importance of the 3-second
rule.
3-second rule is invented by Mystery,
in which he says that within 3 seconds of seeing a girl that you want
to picked up, you should approach the girl. This is because after the 3
seconds, your 'inner' voice will persuade you not to pick up the girl,
as you start to think about how you will get rejected etc. all the
negative thoughts. So, to immediately kill off hesitation and
nervousness, Mystery
suggest to approach the girl within 3 seconds of eye contact. By doing
so, you give out a sense of confidence, and not nervousness, which
should give you additional points.
Some guys like to hover about a girl, in which she can
easily notice her, and then tried to pick her up by being close to her
'accidentally'. This is a nono as it gives the girl a sense of
'stalker' kinda feeling. Be a man, go straight to her face and don't
act like a wuss crawling around her, and yes, remember the 3 seconds
rule. Don't give yourself a chance to doubt yourself, thus just do it!
The 3 second rule, though,
is not absolute - you
may simply not notice her when she enters your environment, or maybe
you'll be tied up with something that might in some way stop you from
approaching her (real obstacles, not your imagined ones). The 3 seconds
start counting from the moment you have spotted her and is free to
approach. When those two conditions are met, you really don't have the
time to think deep thoughts, or try and figure out whether or not she
noticed that you didn't approach her because you were either too
preoccupied, restrained, or simply oblivious - the clock is always
ticking. Keep it moving!
There is a reason it's a RULE
and not just a
recommendation. In just about any situation, you are better off
approaching quickly and without hesitation. Successful people make
quick decisions and change them rarely. After seeing the chick, just do
it! Dont rather wait around to think about the "perfect" opener or
hesitating because of self-doubt. Most guys just stand/sit around,
drooling @ the chick they want to approach rather than just going up
and doing the approach. While they stand/sit there, the voice in their
head goes through every possible rejection scenario and scares the hell
out of them. They cause themselves to get nervous and scared and if
they finally do get the nerve to do the approach, they are walking up
to her as a nervous wreck. In the mean time the chick had time to size
him up and to consider him a wimp and a jelly-back to be discarded. The
longer you wait, the more time gets created for cockblock scenarios to
present themselves.... Go get em tiger, and rememerr, get em in 3.
To
know more about mystery: click here
Next, another important note you guys must know is that
during a pickup, you MUST create a time constraint. You do not want to
create the impression that you will be there awkardly with her until a
couple of hours. You do not want to create the impression that you are
going to follow her the whole day. This scared ladies off. So, you will
need to create the impression that you will be there for a while and so
this does not disturb her original plans for the day, and this
certainly increases your chances of pickup as she feels comfortable
talking to you.
Guys, we all are creative, you can
easily think of a time constraint. A common one will be: " hey look...
i am meeting my friend in like 5 minutes, so i won't bother you for
long..." or " hey... im kinda in a rush, i won't
take more then 5 mins... bla bla bla etc"
Im sure you all can think of better
ones. So remember, the whole pickup, you need to remember the 3 seconds
rule and remember to create a time constraint.
For the pick up lines, people usually
use openers. Openers are sentences that starts the conversation with
the lady.Isn't that pick up lines? yeah, its the same and i do not
know why people differentiate them.
One all
time any situation opener used
by mystery
is :
"What are you looking for?" The first response is almost
always "huh?" or "nothing."
To which I reply, "Everybody is looking for something,
unless.. .you've found it. My name's, what's yours?"
However, this must be immediately follow by a body, in which
the content of what you are going to deliver to make the pick up, and
don't sound like you are talking nonsense. You can check out my article2
for the follow up of the body. But to start the flow, this opener
should work.
Note: don't try all those you look familiar... i think i saw you some
where... are you Jane?... my friend likes you...
All those are for wuss, be a man, don't hide your
intentions, go fore!
Next, another opener can be a compliment opener.
Look, this
compliment is not, oh...your HOT! your BEAUTIFUL! your breasts looks so
tempting... you have tempting butt... Instead, compliment her on things
that normal guys won't notice or compliment.
One such can be: " you are wearing a so and so handbag and
this compliment your dress and your earring so much."
Gals are much more happier if you guys compliment her dress
sense and this actually helps more in the pickup. And be sincere, then
after the compliment, move in like a man, and speak to her. She will be
much thankful for your creativity instead of the usual: your beautiful
type of opener.
Next, another opener can be the opinion opener. This
is the
most commonly used one as it seems like you are trying to get some
opinion and not as a threat to her. Try to target on opinions of stuffs
like men/women differences, sex if you want (but not offensive), etc.
As long as its between men and women kinda questions, it
should spark off some response by women.
" Hey... im trying to get an opinion on something: recently, my friend
over there, he quarrelled with her girlfriend and she actually wants to
break off from him as he was late for 1 min!( try to be cocky and
funny) Is this behaviour of all women or is she just mad?"
To
learn more about cocky and funny: click here
Remember guys, openers can be helpful but they are not
EVERYTHING. Don't go around looking for the perfect pick up lines...you
can't find it. Work on your personality,
confidence
and you will do
fine. Any information on openers will be a bonus.
Click here to look at article2
in which i discuss how to
move from opener into the body, which is the more important.
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