Some people may be afraid of showing signs of flirting. I do
know of people with great ego. He felt that by showing that he is
flirting, he is entering a situation that if the girl rejects him, he
felt disgraced or embarrassed.
But... the best thing is
that... show lots of signs of flirting! I practically flirt with
everyone... my mom, my sister, my friends, flings etc.
Now, there is two sides to flirting. Firstly, flirting in an
obvious way, or... indirectly.
Lets talk about flirting obviously. You are trying to bring fore this
flirting message to a girl and that she can sense it directly. This are
the usuals which you have heard from many guys.
Firstly, there is pros and cons to directly flirting. If the girl is
keen or does not mind that, you are right on target! No loops or
tricks, you got the fish on the bait.
However, for those that have not even get attracted to you, you have
actually irritate her and she does not like that.
And, she will have that thought: " this guy is trying to be
a fool" or " stupid flirter"
So, guys, you need to know when to flirt directly and when not to.
There is always an optimal time for you to do that, and the correct
person to do to. For me, the best time to flirt directly is when there
is attraction created. From there, it is easier to implement.
Regarding the right people, it is sometimes quite hard to judge. A girl
may be so flirty and seductive and somehow she shuts you off when you
flirt with her. A somewhat conservative girl which you think won't
flirt with you, sometimes will be a surprise for you...
Sometimes, you must not trust your gut feeling.
So, this tells you that there is no actual way to tell but
only by estimating with your experience. So...get out your house and
get more experience.
Now... for the indirect flirting. The only way not to show
signs of flirting is when you communicate flirting to the subconscious
mind. This is quite difficult as you use body languages and words to
convey certain meaning to a girl. And she is left wondering why you
sound so sexy, and deep down inside, flirting occurs in their
subconscious.
Women is a subconscious beast... they depend so much on
emotions and yet they are not sure of that. But... its good news for us.
I've actually come across Gambler in which he is good at
flirting indirectly.
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