The most important 'link' to get ANY girl- conversation starters?

"1. ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE.

In other words, we humans don't CHOOSE who we feel attracted to... and, JUST AS IMPORTANT, who we DON'T feel attracted to.

ATTRACTION happens for reasons all its own, and these reasons have evolved inside of us over the last several million years.

While culture, peer pressure, and trends can shape our natural drives slightly, the FUNDAMENTALS NEVER CHANGE.

2. MEN ARE ATTRACTED MORE TO LOOKS, WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED MORE TO PERSONALITY AND CHARACTER.

Most men can't believe it, but to a woman your looks just aren't that important.

Sure, if you don't take care of yourself, don't bathe, and let two of your front teeth rot out you might scare away the ladies.

But for the most part, women will look past just about ANY physical issue if she feels that all-important emotion called ATTRACTION.

And ATTRACTION is created by your PERSONALITY.

For women, ATTRACTION is triggered by male qualities like: Dominance, Humor, Unpredictability, Adventure, Strength, Sexual Awareness, Indifference, Etc.

3. WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.

'Nuff said.

4. WOMEN TEST MEN BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO.

When a woman begins to feel a romantic connection with you, she faces an interesting problem...

How can she tell for sure if you're character and personality are the way you're expressing them?

As we all know, men and women BOTH show off and exaggerate their "good sides" while downplaying and hiding their negative traits at first. This is why men suck in their guts, brag, and show off... and why women wear makeup, do their hair, and shop all day for their clothes.

If you were a woman, and you needed to figure out if a man was showing you his "true self", how would you do it?

What if you had to know FOR SURE?

The only way is to TEST on an ongoing basis, and to keep escalating the tests to be sure.

Put all this together (with a bunch of other factors that I don't have time to talk about) and you get an interesting problem that women face...

A woman responds to a man that stirs her emotions, and causes her to want him so badly that she'll put aside all logic and reason to be with him.

But what if the man is just pretending? What if he only SEEMS to be this confident, funny, manly-man on the outside, but he's actually a push-over WUSS-BAG that is insecure and makes up for it by acting like a tough guy?

Or worse yet, what if he's a WUSS all the time, and she just happened to settle for him because he was available and persistent... and she didn't have anything better going on at the time... but now she has other options?

Well, these are the kinds of situations, that when played out, lead to the story that I started with... a man begging a woman to stay... pleading with her to explain what he has to do to keep her.

Of course, this is all WUSSY behavior, and it only serves to put the final nail in the coffin, convincing the object of your desire that you are ABSOLUTELY, beyond the shadow of any doubt, a Wuss.

So what's the answer?

The answer is to NEVER BE THOUGHT OF AS A WUSSY AGAIN!

If you want to make your dating life a whole lot better and easier, then stop and think about your behavior... and resolve right now to stop acting like a WUSS for the rest of your life.

Being "nice" and "accommodating" and "understanding" is great for friendships and social relationships, but it's HORRIBLE for ATTRACTION.

An interesting, attractive woman doesn't want a guy that she can push around. She doesn't want a guy who does what she wants him to do. She doesn't want a little boy that she can train and raise.

An interesting, attractive woman wants a MAN.

This doesn't make LOGICAL sense, I know. But it's the truth. These submissive qualities will only work in attracting a woman IF SHE LIKES DRESSING UP IN LEATHER AND WHIPPING HER MAN... AND CHARGING $400.00 AN HOUR!

And my guess is that this isn't the kind of woman that you're looking for."

-David Deangelo

  So, your words should say that you are not a wuss, you are not needy of her. You should sound confident and look her in her eyes and not else where. And a very important thing that guys should know that even if you are rejected of the pick up... you don't act like a wuss and start going: " may i ask for ur email instead?" or " im sorry... may i have a chance to say goodbye at least?"

  What you should do is just look her in the eyes and say " well, pleasure meeting you." and smile. After that just walk away. This is very important, don't start to cling around her asking for her permission, walk away like a man.

  Also, while delivering the content, do not ask redundant questions like " how are you?" " whats your name?" etc.

  Instead, go straight in by telling her your name straight and wait for her to tell you hers. " My name is judge." and smile. This shows that you are confident and not needy by asking a question and hoping that she will answer and talk to you.

  Alright, for the content, i will suggest being cocky and funny, or try Style's stuff.

  This one about Name Mnemonics from Style.

HB: What’s your name?

Style: I’m Style.

HB: I’m Janet. This is Donna. And that’s Tony.

Style: Okay…Janet.Donna.Tony. You know, I used to be really bad with names.

HBs: Omigod, I’m so bad with names.

Style: But you don’t have to be anymore. Here, I’ll show you in two seconds. All I do when I’m introduced to you is make a picture in my head. So if you’re Janet, I picture you with the head of Janet from Three’s Company. No offense. And for Donna, I just picture like the dawn, and the sun rising over your head. And for Tony, I see you on the front of a box of Frosted Flakes. Here, I’ll show you.

Now, in the old days, I’d have them memorize my whole name: First, Middle, and Last. But it came off as too gimmick-y. Now, I grab my wing, or a stranger in the club (like another girl I want to meet) and teach them how to memorize his/her First, Middle, and Last name. Learn about mnemonics if you don’t know this. But for it to work, you MUST have them really SEE the picture in their minds. It also becomes fun testing them later in the sarge to see if they still remember.

  This can be used for the content in which you use after the opener. It sure presents some value that you have over the girl. They will become interested.

  Another one you can use, also from Style is the Best friend test if there is 2 girls in which you are goin to pick up.

Style: Okay, I have to ask: how long have you guys known each other for? (If you think they’re sisters ask, Are you guys sisters or best friends?)

HBs: blabla

Style: See, I knew that.

HBs: How could you know that?

Style: I’ll show you. In fact, I’ll give you the best friend test.

HBs: (they always get excited here they love tests for some fucking reason)

Style: Okay.(pretend like I’m about to ask a serious question — you’re hooked, right, so you know they’re already hooked).do you both use the same shampoo?

HBs: (look at each other, and then open their mouths to answer)

Style: Okay, the answer doesn’t matter. You already passed.

HBs: ???????.

Style: See, if you weren’t close to each other, you’d keep eye contact with me as you answered. But if two people have a connection, they look at each other first. Kind of like you’re doing right now.

HBs: giggle (This is where the seduction newbies you just met see you making two strangers laugh and think you’re a PUA God, LOL)

Style: See, you don’t even need to say anything to each other. It’s like you just communicate telepathically.