I will believe that every guy that wants to begin his attraction, seduction, dating journey will stumble upon the internet to search for techniques, insights and guides on how to attract women.
And that is how you got to see my website and this particular page. You want to satisfy your need of finding attractive girls. The problem is, there are tons of seduction dating guides you can find in this website, not to mention the internet.
Don’t be overwhelmed, and don’t think too much about getting the most value to your purchase. I will give you an overview of the whole seduction community and then give you some directions about what to do.
Basically, when it comes to seduction, there are a few distinct groups and “philosophies” in which the community has evolved from. There are different stages when it comes to attracting women: pickup/approach stage, group attraction, social circle attraction, how to lead her to sex, boyfriend destroyers, online dating etc.
As mentioned, i do not believe in zooming down to products which specifically deals with a particular process in dealing with women e.g. sexual problems, unless that is the only difficulty you face.
I believe that many guys, many beginners have the same problem: fear of approach, fear of escalating. Basically, women to you is a mystery and you have totally no control over the behavior to expect from the attractive women that you like. Probably, your emotions, happiness, sadness and behavior is being led by what she replies and does to you, instead of having control over.
What you lack is the certainty to predict her thoughts and actually do the right things to make her become attracted to you. If you can understand what she’s thinking you probably know when to escalate, meaning: when to go for the kiss, when to hold her hands, when to fulfill your sexual desires etc.
So the seduction community has come out with a few options dealing with this problem. We have a few school of thoughts: Natural Seduction, Pickup Artists, Hybrids and relationship based seduction.
I am not going to judge as to which products are the best, or the most effective. In fact, if you grab any pickup products that i have put up in this website, wholeheartedly follow through every details and content of the seduction guide, you will see improvements in your life, or even success in dealing with women.
But i have a distinction to make. Pickup artists’ products are mainly routines, pickup lines, and basically a blueprint in attracting women. The interaction with women has become an unnatural war zone. You will follow through an arsenal of “tools”, in which from the start till the end, everything is being planned and depending on what the women is behaving, you will counter them with the right weapons to get your desire results.
Over time, pickup artists has also know that simply depending on routines and pickup lines doesn’t always work. When too many people are using the same lines over and over again, it’s obvious you pick it up online or some where. And there is also the culture difference in different countries. Try saying: “heyoh chick!” to a China women… it sounds weird.
Thus, pickup products have also shift more into inner game and integrating natural seduction. However, their model of seduction is still focusing on using canned materials to attract women. Simply said, in that split moment, if you did not know which “tools” to use, you hesitate… you’re a goner. Either you say some thing wrongly, get your act exposed or fail to attract her. You have to be a very quick response guy in order to fully utilize their materials. Despite all that I’ve mentioned, pickup artists’ products are definitely powerful. By understanding the ideas behind their methods, and use some of their routines, you will be in for a treat in seeing how different women respond to you. I can’t believe why these guys aren’t taking Harvard degrees for coming up with such detailed, powerful seduction blueprints for attracting women!
If you feel that this is a good mix, and pickup products are what you are looking for, you can go for it. I will believe that love systems boast the best pickup product in Magic Bullets.
However, if you feel that this is so much of an act you have to put up, and you do not want to create another “you” just for seduction. You want to be comfortable, and allow attraction to happen from within. Then you might be interested in what i’m going to say: Natural Seduction. I strongly stand behind this, due to the fact that i want to be comfortable with my identity and who i represent as a person.
A lot of advice claiming to be “natural game” is telling you to be yourself. Just like what lots of your female friends told you: just be natural, be yourself and girls will appreciate it and get attracted.
That’s all?
Bullshit.
If just being your current self, you can attract women, then why aren’t you attracting them yesterday, a week ago, a year ago? Your past results does not show anything. Any by doing what you used to be doing, you will get the same result.
The thing is that, throughout our society and culture, and the evolution of our species, there are many things that have built up limiting beliefs and generalizations about man and women, and how attraction should be. So, when you are young, you have been instilled with so many “wonderful” beliefs of dating, and even your parents are enforcing it. The TVs are showing how guys are going after girls and all the lousy “perfect love story” romance in movies.
All these are being wired into your brain! They are being reinforced all the time from when you are young. These beliefs control your emotions, and how you should act when it comes to dealing with women.
Therefore, your true intention of creating attraction, or having sex with that girl is being covered by these limiting beliefs. While we all have the same desires and intentions inside us, these limiting beliefs cause us to act in another way, thus causing distortion in the expression that we are showing.
So… how can you be yourself?
You need to change these limited beliefs. You need to know the truth behind man and women, back to the time where we are still a young species, and why are we behaving in such a manner. And many times, once you understand the “why?” in people’s behavior, the “how”” comes easily and naturally. This is what I’m talking about. Attraction happens from within.
Vin DiCarlo did the best job that I’m saying, in explaining the “Why?”. In fact, he provide you with the correct beliefs that you should put inside yourself. In fact, I am here to make a statement that his guide should be used as textbook materials!
You will be amazed with how easy attracting women becomes, and no, you do not need to put up an act… sexual attraction is within us all as a species. We just need to uncover it. And Vin DiCarlo did it best, check out The Attraction Code.
Trust me when I say that the attraction code literally changes how you think about women and attraction.
I do believe that the best part does not stops there. The secrets and truth lies in the attraction code makes or breaks you as a person. The profound teachings can actually have a huge impact to all other aspects of your life. Its the same secret that brings the businessman up on the ranks of excellence, gives the politician the charisma he needs to become president, creates the difference between a singer and a rock star.
You will get a total transformation with whatever you are currently doing. I do believe that women are no doubt an essential part of a male’s life, but, there are much other things that we are concern about.
Your career? Your personal development? Your happiness?
I used to be thinking that attracting women has no linkage to my own personal development. It is until i’ve got such a deep understanding on men and women and life, that I begin to think I do not only want success in dealing with women. I want to be a successful person, not only a successful seducer.
I need to deal with my time management, career, physical fitness, finances… to be a better person. And, it was not until I stumbled upon that one guy, David Deangelo, who has managed to solve this issue that is bugging me in my mind.
Eben Pagan, also known as David Deangelo, is a successful businessman, internet marketer, master seducer. Having created Double Your Dating, which has been known as the holy grail of dating, he has done it all. He has effectively make changes in his business and attracting skills to the level of mastery, and with that, brought about a transformation to the level of a successful “man”.
Look, what I’m trying to tell you here is that, if you are looking for an all round success effect on all aspect of your life, together with attraction, you should listen to David. He has compiled his full experience and dealings with his total transformation into a program called: Man Transformation.
Trust me, the investment is worth it with David. I do not want to make other definite promises to lure you to purchase. In fact, if you are just worried about your sex and getting laid, and not at the least interested in how attraction can affect you as being a man, David’s material is not suitable for you, you are still not mature, or ready for it.
