David Wygant’s Date to Win is an ebook that came off at a special angle towards the dating world of guys. I have to say it’s natural. David Wygant has been coaching guys in the seduction community for as long as we know, and has helped many guys breakthrough their own weaknesses and achieved success in the form of attraction and dating women. Although his way of natural dating with women varied very differently from other school of thoughts in pickup and seduction, it works and brings great results to his students. Situational openers and listening to the females are far more important skills as compared to routines and scripted lines.
David Wygant’s Date to Win gives you the power and knowledge to use whatever resources, skills and information that you have within yourself to turn yourself into a confident and attractive person.
In fact the book begins by explaining that the skills necessary to attract the women you desire are actually inherent: “The skills that I’m going to show you are skills that you already possess – your inherent traits. Unfortunately, they are likely skills you’ve spent a lifetime forgetting how to use when you needed them most.” In general being the natural you is truly the best way to go about the seduction world. As Style would say “don’t just be yourself, be your best self.”
The first step of the book actually becomes a self assessment of you. In order to start any transformation, you actually need true answers to the current you in order to begin any transformation, or rather, tuning to become the natural you. By questioning your own answers to your looks, fear of rejection, fear of approaching and your self-limiting beliefs, you are then able to have a bird’s eye view, assess the current situation and put things into perspective.
What really catches me is the assessment of communication skills. In order to communicate properly and effectively with women, you need to know the difference between male and female communication patterns. Do you listen and assess what the woman is trying to say or are you just waiting for an opportunity to talk about yourself? By knowing and understanding that point, you have already taken a big step ahead. In fact, once you know why and how the sexes communicate differently, this will greatly increase the connection between both you and the woman.
And there are also some other questions that ask about something not really related to dating, but its on a broader level of connecting with people and your own personal attraction as a whole.
As follows, after this evaluation, wygant digs deeper and ask the readers to actually evaluate the girl that they wanted, or to assess what kind of women they wanted to attract and how they are as a person. Sometimes its easy just to say chase after all women without an actual expectation in mind. I have to say I have been thinking about this before. Sometimes, we just want any attractive girl that comes along the way. But, if you are just going after the girl just for the sake of her being attractive, the picking up becomes not as natural. And being so, the pickup becomes authentic and women can feel this because they can connect with you at a deeper level and they love it.
Knowing yourself and knowing who you want will bring upon a perfect match when you do the approaching. And, this provides the groundwork to fully bring out the attractive parts of who you are, without faking it or putting on an act. Before women can connect with guys at a deeper level, guys need to know how to get past their inabilities and fears of connecting with women that they are attracted to.
The third step talks about evaluating the world right in front of you. Your workplace, your everyday. Readers are asked to look at their daily routines and find romantic opportunities that are available in their own routines. Guys will then need to do some simple observations and think of ways to connect with women on those different familiar situations in their own daily routines. Also, this step talks about many different places to meet women, and how to use situations and the environment to connect with women.
The fourth step talks about how to get women to approach you. Your thoughts and your body language give out signals to women around you, whether you are approachable or not. Come on, women are even more afraid of being rejected.
Some simple exercises have been given by Wygant such as to hold eye contact with girls, learn to smile. By being naturally sociable, such as talking to everyone that you see and making friends with other people comfortably, this makes the person doing it confident, attractive. And so, this makes the approach to women who have been watching you, easier. (Increase in social proof)
Step five gets into the nuts and bolts of the approach and interaction with a woman you want to meet. One helpful tool is to use a “prop” to help start and lead a conversation. A prop can be just about anything in the environment that will aid the interaction, including objects, events, and people. He then looks at specific props and techniques you can use in a variety of places where you are likely to meet women.
One interesting one was the 10 P.M. rule to use when out at bars and clubs. This is the section of the e-book that really looks at techniques in detail.
Given my many encounters with many products and ebooks outside, David Wygant’s Date to Win come across as sincere, natural and unique. This does not bring about a scientific system or community jargons on the table which makes you feel like you are an actor. In fact, some of things taught in this ebook are so simple and obvious that many guys just missed it like this.
What I recommend is to take the exercises seriously. It makes a huge difference by studying the book, or just reading the book. You will make more breakthroughs by doing those simple exercises inside, while reading.
This is definitely great for beginners, and also for some of you guys who have been struggling to increase your attraction skills using other seduction method. This natural way of attraction might be just for you, or people who like to be real.
