I was hanging out with my friends at a club on Christmas eve. It was a normal night and then something happened. My friend, lets call him Ben, wants to approach a girl that he likes. Oh well, he asked for my help. As usual, i’ll tried to explain how approaching directly shows that he is sincere and confident about himself.

But friends kinda don’t take you seriously. They are happy with me approaching for them. So i did it my way and told the girl that my friend is interested in her. Straight to the face. I told her that i take it as a yes because she looks kind of confused.

I got some laughs from her friends.

Back to my table, i asked Ben to go ahead as that girl says yes. Being a shy boy, he smile nervously before walking towards the girls. He went ahead and asked for her number. So being girls, she tried to be difficult and asked for a MacDonald meal in return.

Here is the critical point… my friend said ok.

Later on, we had a little debate about the meal-in-exchange-for-number saga. I explained that being interested in the opposite sex, and expressing it sincerely to her is absolutely fine. If you want to get her number, get it because you are sincere about knowing her. Not in exchange for a meal.

Making friends is not a transaction. You are going to be starting this new “friendship” on the wrong step… a transactional one. Imagine paying for her shopping in exchange for sex? Or the classic move: buying girls drinks to talk to them.

You, i mean you by yourself is adequate. You are not inferior, and you definitely do not need to buy things or do her favours in order to deserve her attention.

This is how i will say if she asked for a meal in return:

“Look, i notice you from afar and i felt that i would kick myself in the butt if i did not approached you. So… here I am, asking for your number. I seriously do not think that you are worth just a MacDonald’s meal. Anyway, i just want to let you know that you look absolutely like a fun person to hang out with, and i want to see you again.”

If she refused, simply smile, say nice meeting you and leave.

There are many other chances.

However, that is always the exception.

If you happen to sit down, and have a wonderful conversation with this girl. And the bill comes and you want to pay for it go ahead. I think its an act of gentleman. But do it because you want to and you enjoy her company. Do not do it for an exchange of her attention.

I will believe that every guy that wants to begin his attraction, seduction, dating journey will stumble upon the internet to search for techniques, insights and guides on how to attract women.

And that is how you got to see my website and this particular page. You want to satisfy your need of finding attractive girls. The problem is, there are tons of seduction dating guides you can find in this website, not to mention the internet.

Don’t be overwhelmed, and don’t think too much about getting the most value to your purchase. I will give you an overview of the whole seduction community and then give you some directions about what to do.

Basically, when it comes to seduction, there are a few distinct groups and “philosophies” in which the community has evolved from. There are different stages when it comes to attracting women: pickup/approach stage, group attraction, social circle attraction, how to lead her to sex, boyfriend destroyers, online dating etc.

As mentioned, i do not believe in zooming down to products which specifically deals with a particular process in dealing with women e.g. sexual problems, unless that is the only difficulty you face.

I believe that many guys, many beginners have the same problem: fear of approach, fear of escalating. Basically, women to you is a mystery and you have totally no control over the behavior to expect from the attractive women that you like. Probably, your emotions, happiness, sadness and behavior is being led by what she replies and does to you, instead of having control over.

What you lack is the certainty to predict her thoughts and actually do the right things to make her become attracted to you. If you can understand what she’s thinking you probably know when to escalate, meaning: when to go for the kiss, when to hold her hands, when to fulfill your sexual desires etc.

So the seduction community has come out with a few options dealing with this problem. We have a few school of thoughts: Natural Seduction, Pickup Artists, Hybrids and relationship based seduction.

I am not going to judge as to which products are the best, or the most effective. In fact, if you grab any pickup products that i have put up in this website, wholeheartedly follow through every details and content of the seduction guide, you will see improvements in your life, or even success in dealing with women.

But i have a distinction to make. Pickup artists’ products are mainly routines, pickup lines, and basically a blueprint in attracting women. The interaction with women has become an unnatural war zone. You will follow through an arsenal of “tools”, in which from the start till the end, everything is being planned and depending on what the women is behaving, you will counter them with the right weapons to get your desire results.

Over time, pickup artists has also know that simply depending on routines and pickup lines doesn’t always work. When too many people are using the same lines over and over again, it’s obvious you pick it up online or some where. And there is also the culture difference in different countries. Try saying: “heyoh chick!” to a China women… it sounds weird.

Thus, pickup products have also shift more into inner game and integrating natural seduction. However, their model of seduction is still focusing on using canned materials to attract women. Simply said, in that split moment, if you did not know which “tools” to use, you hesitate… you’re a goner. Either you say some thing wrongly, get your act exposed or fail to attract her. You have to be a very quick response guy in order to fully utilize their materials. Despite all that I’ve mentioned, pickup artists’ products are definitely powerful. By understanding the ideas behind their methods, and use some of their routines, you will be in for a treat in seeing how different women respond to you. I can’t believe why these guys aren’t taking Harvard degrees for coming up with such detailed, powerful seduction blueprints for attracting women!

If you feel that this is a good mix, and pickup products are what you are looking for, you can go for it. I will believe that love systems boast the best pickup product in Magic Bullets.

However, if you feel that this is so much of an act you have to put up, and you do not want to create another “you” just for seduction. You want to be comfortable, and allow attraction to happen from within. Then you might be interested in what i’m going to say: Natural Seduction. I strongly stand behind this, due to the fact that i want to be comfortable with my identity and who i represent as a person.

A lot of advice claiming to be “natural game” is telling you to be yourself. Just like what lots of your female friends told you: just be natural, be yourself and girls will appreciate it and get attracted.

That’s all?

Bullshit.

If just being your current self, you can attract women, then why aren’t you attracting them yesterday, a week ago, a year ago? Your past results does not show anything. Any by doing what you used to be doing, you will get the same result.

The thing is that, throughout our society and culture, and the evolution of our species, there are many things that have built up limiting beliefs and generalizations about man and women, and how attraction should be. So, when you are young, you have been instilled with so many “wonderful” beliefs of dating, and even your parents are enforcing it. The TVs are showing how guys are going after girls and all the lousy “perfect love story” romance in movies.

All these are being wired into your brain! They are being reinforced all the time from when you are young. These beliefs control your emotions, and how you should act when it comes to dealing with women.

Therefore, your true intention of creating attraction, or having sex with that girl is being covered by these limiting beliefs. While we all have the same desires and intentions inside us, these limiting beliefs cause us to act in another way, thus causing distortion in the expression that we are showing.

So… how can you be yourself?

You need to change these limited beliefs. You need to know the truth behind man and women, back to the time where we are still a young species, and why are we behaving in such a manner. And many times, once you understand the “why?” in people’s behavior, the “how”” comes easily and naturally. This is what I’m talking about. Attraction happens from within.

Vin DiCarlo did the best job that I’m saying, in explaining the “Why?”. In fact, he provide you with the correct beliefs that you should put inside yourself. In fact, I am here to make a statement that his guide should be used as textbook materials!

You will be amazed with how easy attracting women becomes, and no, you do not need to put up an act… sexual attraction is within us all as a species. We just need to uncover it. And Vin DiCarlo did it best, check out The Attraction Code.

Trust me when I say that the attraction code literally changes how you think about women and attraction.

I do believe that the best part does not stops there. The secrets and truth lies in the attraction code makes or breaks you as a person. The profound teachings can actually have a huge impact to all other aspects of your life. Its the same secret that brings the businessman up on the ranks of excellence, gives the politician the charisma he needs to become president, creates the difference between a singer and a rock star.

You will get a total transformation with whatever you are currently doing. I do believe that women are no doubt an essential part of a male’s life, but, there are much other things that we are concern about.

Your career? Your personal development? Your happiness?

I used to be thinking that attracting women has no linkage to my own personal development. It is until i’ve got such a deep understanding on men and women and life, that I begin to think I do not only want success in dealing with women. I want to be a successful person, not only a successful seducer.

I need to deal with my time management, career, physical fitness, finances… to be a better person. And, it was not until I stumbled upon that one guy, David Deangelo, who has managed to solve this issue that is bugging me in my mind.

Eben Pagan, also known as David Deangelo, is a successful businessman, internet marketer, master seducer. Having created Double Your Dating, which has been known as the holy grail of dating, he has done it all. He has effectively make changes in his business and attracting skills to the level of mastery, and with that, brought about a transformation to the level of a successful “man”.

Look, what I’m trying to tell you here is that, if you are looking for an all round success effect on all aspect of your life, together with attraction, you should listen to David. He has compiled his full experience and dealings with his total transformation into a program called: Man Transformation.

Trust me, the investment is worth it with David. I do not want to make other definite promises to lure you to purchase. In fact, if you are just worried about your sex and getting laid, and not at the least interested in how attraction can affect you as being a man, David’s material is not suitable for you, you are still not mature, or ready for it.

I will want to announced that Vin DiCarlo’s The Attraction Code is the “Think and Grow Rich” book when it comes to attraction. I will believe it is a must read for developing yourself as a male in this world, as compared to all the other pickup tricks that you are trying to learn.

Do you believe in yourself? Do you think you can attract women? Do you know how to develop your innate skills and work on your confidence in order to appear attractive at all times?

If you answered no in any of the questions, it’s time for you to grab a copy of Vin Di Carlo’s The Attraction Code. This book discusses the attraction techniques that you can apply in your daily life. But first, before you go out there to pick up a woman you’re attracted too, you must create changes in your own life. How will the world react to you if you need inner workings yourself? Remember that how people perceive you depends on how you see yourself.

Vin DiCarlo is a mastermind. He knows that attraction is not what you say or do to a woman, it is what you put in her mind when you’re with her and when you’re away from her. Picking up women is an art for him. Vin DiCarlo has already mastered this and is willing to share what he knows to other guys out there.

Vin DiCarlo’s The Attraction Code continues to generate raving reviews because the information here is absolutely honest. Therefore,  guys give very positive feedback due to the fact that it truly explains “why” attraction happens and make great sense. The whole point of the book is to let men reach the state where they can flow freely with their ability in attracting women. They do not have to be an alpha male in order to approach the woman that they fancy. They do not need pick up line after pick up line. Neither do they have to “stalk” a woman to know her interests for good conversation piece.

The key is:
Intention – Focus – State – Expression

The guy must be clear, first and foremost, of his intention. What Vin DiCarlo has mentioned is that the only way to create attraction is to escalate in what ever you do, physically. If you are not escalating, you aren’t doing anything! So now, once you are clear of the intention that you have: “create attraction”, you can move on to focus. What ever happens during your interaction, you can only focus on what’s going to create attraction. What ever junk thoughts that you are running in your brain that’s not helping you to achieve that intention, don’t even think about it. You must lock on your focus, and if you shift your focus to the wrong thing, you will beat yourself down.

So once you know how to focus, naturally you will feel the right emotions. These emotions will create the state that you are in. The critical part comes in now. Vin DiCarlo mentioned that there are 3 state frictions which will affect you deeply. You must know how to deal with it as it cannot be stop completely. You need to learn how to take action despite these frictions, and he is going to show you inside his book.

Lastly, if everything flows smoothly from intention to focus to state, you will be able to express yourself clearly. Remember that women can “smell” what you are thinking. But if they see the congruency in you in terms of your intention and body language, true attraction can be created.

You will then develop self-confidence. Just train yourself to really focus on your goal. Going back to Vin DiCarlo’s The Attraction Code, you are now set to lure out the magnetic attraction at this point. You have the natural technique you need to lure women in.

Now relax – all you need are the certain mindsets and behaviors. If that particular technique is working well, then that means you could keep doing it. If a particular pick up style was not well-received by the opposite sex, then stop doing it. Confidence is also a tricky word. You may think that you are confident but the woman might see you as over-confident. She would dump you before you could even your mouth. Or, is there such a word as confidence? Vin DiCarlo explained it clearly in his book about the existence of confidence.

The secret is to just be in the moment. Be passionate about what you do every time. If it is introducing yourself to the opposite sex, let them know that you are in the moment. Women will surely appreciate that.

The Attraction Code is about being dominance as an attitude for a man. It is not about trying to be dominant or showing that you are dominant, it’s just that attitude. And once you know how to truly become a man, what ever tests women throw at you, you will handle it like it is, and create attraction. Did i  ever mention pickup lines?

You can access The Attraction Code here.

I would say that this is the perfect, all-star line up, seduction masters getting together to put in their best creativity to create the Love Systems’ Routine Manual. Who do you expect? Mystery Method, Fast Seduction 101, Brad P. and Bad Boy Lifestyles… The making of this routines manual came from extracting powerful, useful and the best routines, or rather what the naturals call: “their best stuffs”. All from the best minds in seduction community, what say you?

It is an impressive 199-pages thick, bible of routines you can ever find. All you need to now about routines, you can find it all here in this manual. Being focused solely on Routines, it is very heavy on material, but light on theory. This manual is an extension supplement to the original Magic Bullets of Love Systems, which breaks down the fundamentals of attraction.
(If you’re wondering what a “routine” is – it’s something you can say or do that gets a specific reaction from a woman. My opening lines/openers are routines. The way I get a girl to leave the bar and come home with me is a routine. A routine is something I know works for me that I can use over and over.)

My first reaction when I heard of this routine manual is: oh no, is it another compilation of standard phrases pickup lines or simply overused lines like: jealous GF opener, the best friends test, the cube, or other routines talked about in Neil Strauss’ The Game. I’m glad to see routines being varied and incorporated into different levels of pickup such as indirect and direct games. For some parts, even NLP is incorporated.

The book is focused almost solely on routines, from opening to closing. The chapters break up routines into openers, transitioning, attraction, qualification, comfort, and seduction. There is also a chapter on how to create your own routines, and a “bonus chapter” on storytelling. The purpose of the manual is not to give the reader a script to memorize, but to give examples and explanations of how routines work so that the PUA can eventually remove the training wheels and form his own routines and unique style. And this is exactly what I like about this advanced stuff. It’s no more brainless memorizing, but to actually teach you how to master and create your own routines any time, so that in any situation, you know how to react accordingly instead of template answers.

I will have to say, this book is overwhelming in the sense of great content. If you still run out of things to use and say, it just means that your fundamentals are still not in place. The only problem I have with this routine manual is that it is not an independent read by itself. The emphasis of Magic Bullets and Love Systems products is being felt. You will get a better understanding after you read Magic Bullets.

• Introducing the new Love Systems Routines Manual Vol 2. It covers all of the most common responses beautiful women give to the most popular routines, and where to go with each one.

(You can actually get Volume 1 and Volume 2 together for a big discount on that page.)

So these are some things you will be getting from Volume 2:

• All new routines. There’s no overlap between the two books.
• A guide to each routine. Every routine is introduced with expert advice about when and when not to use it, different variations, and great comebacks to use for the most common responses.
• A full chapter with new openers – never wonder “what do I say?” when you want to approach a woman, group of women, or even mixed groups (women with men with them).
• A whole chapter for each stage of the Emotional Progression Model, including all-new Attraction Routines, Qualification Routines, and Comfort Routines.
• A bonus chapter with phone and text game routines – edited by Love Systems instructor Braddock, the master of phone and text game.
• An additional chapter featuring Day Game routines – edited by Soul, the lead instructor for Love Systems Day Game.
• Turning things sexual. All of those secret techniques like “seeding” and “sexual framing” that turn cold approaches and “let’s just be friends” into same-night lays and sexual relationships.
• Advanced Attraction game, using both “state-based” and “intrigue-based” routines, with dozens of examples of both.

Despite the huge detailed content that you will be getting from the routine manual, either volume 1 or volume 2, I will need to caution you here. Routines are more for advanced seduction apprentice who have at least mastered the basics of attraction. If you are looking to learn pickup or attraction, I do not think routine manual is for you. Perhaps a read of Magic Bullets or other attraction manuals is more appropriate. If you are already an intermediate pickup artist and wish to further improve your game and routines, you are right on. Most of all, this should not be a final end to finding the magic line or routine to end it all.

Check out Love System’s Routine Manual I and II

Magic Bullets The first thing that caught my attention about Magic Bullets by Love Systems (previously known as Mystery Method) is that Savoy does not boast that this is the only available method to seduce or pickup women.

We have to know there is never a ‘one size fit all’ system and I am a firm believer of that. In fact, many pickup artists like to announce to the world that theirs is the only method that works. I personally feel that we need to open our minds to all methods, but, only absorb and adapt whatever is relevant to you, or works on you. In fact, I use many different methods that suit my style.

Every chapter consists on one of the phases of the Emotional Progression Model. Chapter 5 is about Opening. I do believe that this is one of the basics and nothing very spectacular about this. Chapter 6 is about transitioning from opening into a normal conversation. This chapter definitely brought new insights to me. Guys normally have no problem to do openers besides approaching anxiety. The bigger problem is always the transitioning. Savoy gave powerful advice on how to do it, and provide specific examples to demonstrate it. Perfect. Chapter 7 is about attraction. Basically, its pretty much the old Mystery Method (MM), Venusian Arts kinda. However, I like how they talked about negging, and how guys actually misunderstood it and applied wrongly. Also, they go in deep on how to DHV (Demonstrate Higher Value) correctly. Chapter 8 is about Qualifications. This time, as compared to MM, they brought an even closer and careful analysis of how to do it correctly, to the extent of providing a structure of how to do it right with careful examinations of examples.

Chapter 9 is about comfort. They focused a lot of group dynamics, and how to deal with comfort when the girl that you want is in a group. Personally, I do think that this is very important. Gone are the days when isolation is your sole purpose. Now we need to know how to deal with group dynamics. Just a note, I do feel that it’s somewhat hard to apply. In chapter 10, seduction is being discussed. The key takeaways from me are the 3 techniques in dealing with “state breaks”. There’s nothing tricky about this, just pure following by the book. And its effective. Chapter 11 is about relationship. It gives information about how to act to different people, according to what kind of relationship you want to establish with them. Wow, I seriously learn something new here. I pretty much didn’t know that some of my behaviors are getting me into serious trouble with relationship with girls.

Chapter 12 is about social circle. Personally, I love doing cold approaches. However, deep down inside, I’m more comfortable knowing girls within my social circle. And this chapter has broken down and differentiates the difference between approaching women and within your own social circle and pure pickup. One key takeaway is that you do not even need to waste time opening in a social circle, but just go straight into attraction and get to comfort fast. It’s also in this chapter that the He Said/She Said analysis is being used by Savoy. It consists of having both perspective of a man and a woman being analyzed on a given situation. It is great because it served as a guide and reference for you to figure out if it’s right or wrong. Wow.

Chapter 13 starts with day game. Cold approaches in the day are just fantastic. It’s definitely refreshing for me to read because I can now approach anyone even in the day and not just in the night arena. However, I do think that this is not their focus as more details into day gaming could have been done. Chapter 14 is into strip clubs, in which I’m not really interested. But you can try if that suits your taste. J

Section IV of Magic Bullets is about skills on pickups. This part of the book includes a chapter on Physical Progression (Kino Escalation), a chapter on Dates, a chapter on Storytelling, a chapter on Non Verbal Communication, a chapter on Kissing, a chapter on Fashion and Grooming, a chapter on Winging, and a chapter on Phone Game. These are the arsenal of skills which you will face when handling any women at any point of time. Savoy goes into great details on how to deal with these problems.  Absolutely perfect material on how to generate attraction and maintain comfort in the problems as mentioned above.

On an overall view, Magic Bullets is definitely a good catch and a necessary read as it covers most of the Why’s and How’s of pickup and attraction in great details. This provides the fundamentals and the explanation of why there is a need for such a behavior from each phase of pickup. This ultimately aids you in creating your own routines and pickup material once you understand the objectives behind each fundamental. What really impress me is that I’m a “system” kind of guy. Magic Bullets exactly breaks down the pickup so that you can jump straight into any phase which you have problems, and easily dissect your problem in dealing with women. The solution is easily seen as such.

Magic Bullet is included as one of my beginner and fundamental seduction guide and whenever I reached a plateau, I will refer back to it to get a boast in my game.

Visit the official website for Magic Bullets and download Magic Bullets today.