Lets look at some of the best tips to seduce women fast: “Be Yourself”
Talk to any girls about pickup or dating advice and they will be saying things similar to that.
“Just be yourself and all will be fine.”
I guess many of the guys at the point of time will be thinking to themselves: “I’ve been doing this all my life but it does not seems to be working?” So the conclusion of these guys will either be that the girls are bullshitting them, or they need something more than that.
Most of you guys will be thinking about not being yourself. You want to be different. You want to involve into a seducing machine with an attractive personality. That is why there are many guys trying to learn pickup materials, so that through some structure, you can build in another personality.
At this point of time, i think many of you guys have got it all wrong. Look, there is only so far that you can keep up with your “personality”. There comes a day when you become sick and tired. The beauty with pickup products are that they can help you seduce women fast. However, there are many inner issues and conflicting thoughts and beliefs that you need to be dealing with yourself.
Actually they are right about being yourself. We are not talking about being having the same old behaviors that gets you unlaid, or just shake your head and suffer in silence when you could not get the courage to talk to womens that you are fond of.
We are talking about dropping all the insecurities barriers in your head, and start expressing yourself congruently. I do believe that deep down inside every guy, there is a confident, attractive and calm “you”. That is why to get attract the women, you do not need to change yourself into someone else, but rather, letting go of whatever insecurties that is holding the attractive person who already lies within you.
Another keypoint that can help you create attraction fast is releasing a huge limiting beliefs that most guys have. Many of you guys just lack of the balls, period. You are a man, remember that. That comes with a lot of benefits and advantages in this world, but also responsibilities.
This means that you should be the one who initiates and escalate physically, or the interaction. What if you have approaching anxiety, or get all nervous the moment you can’t execute what you are thinking? e.g. going for the kiss etc.
Ah yes, you have an “inner” game problem. Perhaps the top reason you have when seducing women is that you are not providing enough value for the women, especially the more attractive ones. When you reached these pitfalls, you need to tell yourself that you are a giver, and that the women is attracted to you because of your intrinsic value that you provided during your interaction with her.
The moment you keep thinking that she will get bored when she comes out with you or that you are priviledged to get her out with you and now what? kinda thoughts, you are on the wrong court. Your confidence is being sucked down, you are lost for words and guess what’s the best about this situation: Women can sense it perfectly.
What you can do is to reconnect with all the things that are great in your life. Think again. There are definitely moments in which you felt that huge confidence surging in you. You feel that you can do literally anything. You need to start to think about these moments on a daily basis. You do have a lot to “give”, but you are getting all jitteries when you are hitting the “field”.
Get back your confidence and go for it, whether you want to seduce the women now, go for the kiss, start the conversation etc. Get out of your comfort zone and escalate the next time you find yourself deep inside an interaction with a women.
Ask yourself what’s the best that can happen to you when you put on your balls and get out of your comfort zone. Alternatively, you can ask yourself whats the worse that can happen if you made that action?
A tight slap from her?
She hates you forever?
She does not wants to talk to you again?
Think again your endless opportunites when you have figured it out how to seduce women. This will just be one of womens.
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Unleash the attractive guy deep inside you all along.
